Time for Myself

As single moms it is so easy to forget to take care of ourselves. Between the job, the bills, the home, the meals, and the kids with all of their projects and activities, it can be hard to manage a shower, let alone some 'me' time.

But, for me, finding time for myself is vital. Without it I can get burned-out. I feel overwhelmed. I snap at my kids. I feel like I just can't keep up this pace anymore. So, while it isn't always easy, I make the time.

Now, of course I am not talking about a weekend retreat every month, although that would be nice. But it is amazing how big of a difference an hour or two away from my regular life can make. Lately, I have been taking myself to breakfast once a week. I go to this little cafe with yummy, inexpensive food and good coffee. I sit down and take a few deep breaths and look out the window while I wait for my food. I actually savor what I eat. And then I pull out my fiction book and read for a while.

It doesn't take long, an hour or two at most. But I come away feeling so refreshed. Taking even a little time for myself each week makes my life feel more manageable. And, for me, that is key.

What do you do that makes your single-mom life feel manageable?

The Me Project, by Kathi Lipp

As moms we tend to focus on everything but ourselves. We give to our families and spend almost all of our time taking care of others. But, is it okay to think about what we'd like to do? Is it okay to dream for ourselves?

"The Me Project" says yes. Written by author and speaker Kathi Lipp, this very practical guide encourages women to pursue their dreams, while still taking care of their families. Written from a Christian perspective, this step-by-step book gives you permission and a plan to figure out what your dreams are, make sure they are in line with God's will for you, and to begin pursuing them.

As single moms, we have to make money somehow. Why not take some time and figure out a way to do it that you love, that you feel called to? Dare to dream for your own life, not just for the lives of your children.

Through humor and practical suggestions, Kathi Lipp can help you find yourself again after single motherhood has taken over. So, grab a copy for you (and one for your bff) and start dreaming!